Two Great Ways for Fixing a Broken Relationship

Are you suffering through a broken relationship? Are you looking for a way to fix it? Nothing is more traumatic than when our relationships fall apart and it is easy to find yourself falling into a deep depression. We become lethargic and even the easiest thing becomes a chore. Eventually we start to wonder if there is any hope for fixing a broken relationship.

While fixing a broken relationship sometimes requires a great deal of time and effort, especially if the hurt has been allowed to fester for a long time, sometimes the relationship can be repaired by doing a few little things consistently.

One Important Thing You Can Do

One of the most important things you can do is to stop finding fault with your mate and criticizing everything they do. No one is perfect. We all have our faults and shortcomings. And one of the worst things you can do is to point out the faults of your partner. When you do this your partner might begin to feel that they are not pleasing to you, that you find them unworthy, and that you feel they are not good enough for you. Eventually they might even shut down and quit trying to please you at all.

Instead of pointing out their faults and criticizing every thing they do, try encouraging them and being supportive. Tell them how much you admire them and how smart they are. Tell them how pretty or handsome they are and how much you love and appreciate them and how grateful you are to have them in your life.

When you show your mate this kind of attention you will be surprised at how their whole attitude about you and themselves will change for the better.

The Next Important Thing

Another important thing you can do is to not try to fix or improve the other person. Try to improve yourself. Work on you. Maybe you are just as much a part of the problem as your mate. When fixing a broken relationship you must take a good hard look at yourself also. So even if your mate does everything you expect of them, and you don’t change yourself, then the problems will resurface again.

Maybe it is your attitudes and perspective that needs to change. And maybe some of your actions or inactions could use some changing too.

Being aware of and taking these two actions can go a long way in fixing a broken relationship.

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